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The Curious Cure

by | Jan 13, 2022 | Inner Child, Inner Critic, Wellness

Much of my early life involved adjusting to the chaos of angry and hurt divorcing parents. Somewhere in the shuffle, I felt forgotten and burdensome, yet at the same time expected to act in ways that regulated and calmed the adult’s emotions. The side effect of walking on this emotional tight-rope was that I built one hell of an inner critic.

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Carson spent a decade working with military trauma and developing Thrive. These days he is making space to pursue his calling towards art and creativity.

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